In His Hands

July 2–Ecclesiastes 9-12

Dear friend, thank you for your interest in threepagesperday. I am grateful to have you near as we consider His excellent word together. As a reminder and encouragement, please be certain to read the words of Scripture before you consider my comments. Nothing substitutes for your own encounter with God’s word. Nothing! Thanks for joining me on this journey.

“For I have taken all this to my heart. . .wise men and their deeds are in the hand of God. Man does not know whether it will be love or hatred; anything awaits him. It is the same for all. There is one fate for the righteous and for the wicked. . .this is an evil in all that is done under the sun”(9:1-3).

Two things seem unfair to Solomon. No matter how hard you work, or what you achieve, life can never be certain (there is no predicting or controlling it). The ONLY certainty is death. Solomon struggles to accept this truth. It is “evil” he mutters in frustration.

His is a common protest. An expression of pride, actually. Despite the malignant promises of the serpent, and the frenzied efforts of our own will, we cannot be like God. Not in what He knows. (See 11:5.) Not in permanence. (See 12:13.) We are not independent or self-sufficient. God is both.

‘He’s got the whole world in His hands,” says the much-loved children’s song.” Peace, therefore, can never be found in striving to be “more” than we were created to be. Peace comes in the humble and joyful union with God. We are NOT in control. He is.

Years ago, I read the poem, Invictus, by William Ernest Henley. “Out of the night that covers me, black as the pit from pole to pole, I thank whatever gods may be for my unconquerable soul. . .It matters not how strait the gate, how charged with punishments the scroll, I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul.”

Pride is a hard road. For Henley. For Solomon. Claiming independence we find only anxiety. Humility is better. “Humble yourselves before the Lord and He will lift you up”(James 4:10).

Dear one, are you struggling like Solomon or finding peace in the plans and hands of the Lord?

Balancing Both

July 1–Ecclesiastes 4-8

“It is good that you grasp one thing and also not let go of the other; for the one who fears God comes forth with both”(7:18).

Some people don’t like Ecclesiastes. They avoid it. Life is depressing enough on its own. Who needs Solomon’s sadness?

Allowing our reluctance to engage in this emotionally complicated discussion, Solomon still urges us to listen. He calls himself “the Preacher” (1:1). It’s a name taken from a Hebrew word that means “to gather an assembly”. Similar to the Greek word for church (ecclesia, thus Ecclesiastes, the English name for this book). Solomon isn’t just griping and groaning. He has a sermon. Something he wants to say. Something of value.

Humans (all of us) have a difficult and glorious assignment. We are created to be both material and Spiritual. Made of dust AND animated by God’s breath (Spirit). Our lives make sense only when we embrace BOTH sides of our identity and hold them in proper balance/tension.

Material things matter! Family and friendship. Money and laughter. Professions and pleasures. All these give us context and joy. They are, however, insufficient reasons for life. Easily and often they become idols.

Our highest identity and assignment is Spiritual. It is a calling that requires focus and time. Solomon urges us to come into God’s presence with humility. “Do not be hasty in word or impulsive in thought to bring up a matter in the presence of God. For God is in heaven and you are on earth; therefore, let your words be few” (5:2). Humble yourself. Wait. Do not rush this pursuit.

It is a beautiful balance we saw in our Lord. Up early to pray. Then later, the same day, out with crowds, teaching and healing. Spiritual pursuit, physical contribution. He did both, and He will teach us to do both, too!

“I do not ask You to take them out of the world, but to keep them from the evil one. They are not of the world, just as I am not of the world”(Jesus, John 17:15-16).

“Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God” (Matthew 4:4).

Under The Sun

June 30–Ecclesiastes 1-3

“All things are wearisome. . .the eye is not satisfied with seeing, nor is the ear filled with hearing. . .that which has been is what will be. . .there is nothing new under the sun”(1:8-9).

A sad story. At the end of life, Solomon was an empty and discouraged man.

Ecclesiastes is his testimony. “The wisest” man who ever lived! Frustrated and unsatisfied. A reminder to us all. Human wisdom is VERY limited in ultimate value.

Over time, Solomon drifted into a very negative space. He began to exclude God from the center. His priority shifted from revelation and faith to making sense of life “under the sun” (i.e. with a primary focus on material things, human logic). The world is not enough.

Like modern secularists, Solomon attempted to use only logic and science to understand the world and his place in it. Gradually, he lost interest/confidence in God as a basis for life.

Life does not work under these terms! Can’t. No satisfying answers can be found when the search is carried on “under the sun” (Under the umbrella of a material-only focus.) Without God, all things, family and friendships and achievements, eventually decay into “vanity”. Hebrew, hebel, “vapor, breath, something insubstantial, empty of permanent value”.

“If you try to live out Proverbs without Christ you get Ecclesiastes”(Andy De Hart).

Friend, do you have a place in your heart (in your schedule and priorities and thoughts) for invisible realities? Do you realize that you NEED God? Not only because it is right to praise Him, but because life does not WORK any other way?

“With God, life is an endless hope. Without God, life is a hopeless end” (Bill Bright).

“Set your mind on things above, not on the things that are on the earth. For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God”(Colossians 3:2-3).

Hardening the Neck

June 29–Proverbs 28-31

“A man who hardens his neck after much reproof will suddenly be broken beyond remedy”(29:1).

Godly reproof is a gift. It is evidence of love. (Please see yesterday’s blog.) Correction, however, is beneficial only when it is received. God’s grace comes to the humble, the repentant.

Proverbs 29 warns against “hardening of the neck”. Vivid picture. Stubborn mule. Doesn’t want to move forward. Resists by stiffening his neck. Pulling back against the owner’s tugging rope. “Kicking against the goads,” is a similar Biblical phrase for this familiar and foolish obstinance. See Acts 26:14.

God is patient. Slow to anger. Even so, consequences eventually come to those who resist His will. A point-of-no-return is reached, and the threatened destruction suddenly comes. No further warnings given.

As Solomon wrote this proverb, I wonder if he thought of his father. Reproved by Nathan (2 Samuel 12), David received the correction with a humble heart and open confession. By humbling himself, David saved his kingdom and his soon-to-be-born son (Solomon). David did NOT harden his neck! Such wisdom!

Am I a stubborn mule? Proud? Hard to convince? Do I resist the Spirit? It is a dangerous place to be. The “old man” in me does not submit to the Law of God. He is not able to do so. See Romans 8:7. Only as I walk in the Spirit do I receive the corrections of God with a soft and pliable heart. God reproves those He loves. Those who love Him listen and yield.

“He who conceals his transgression will not prosper; But he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion” (Proverbs 28:13).

“Have Thine own way, Lord. Have Thine own way. Thou art the potter, I am the clay. Mold me and make me after Thy will, while I am waiting yielded and still” (Adelaide Pollard).

Wise Reprover

June 28-Proverbs 25-27

“Like an earring of gold and an ornament of gold is a wise reprover to a listening ear”(25:12).

It is a gift of love. It can, however, be painful and has the potential to “go badly”. We, therefore, avoid it more often than we should. Scripture teaches us to reprove each other.

The Hebrew word is yakach. It means “to get in front of.” The current version of this idiom is, “to get in his face”.

“Judge not,” does not forbid every kind of moral discernment. “Friends don’t let friends drive drunk,” goes the modern proverb. Sincere love demands from us the courage to help each other correct moral mistakes, avoid moral dangers.

Reproof must be done with wisdom. Carefully. Without any hint of criticism or arrogance. “You who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; each one looking to yourself, so that you too will not be tempted”(Galatians 6). Much prayer is required. The wise reprieve must deal first with his own arrogance and pride. “Take the beam out of your own eye, then deal with the speck in my brother’s eye,” said Jesus with considerable insight.

It must also be done with balance. Nine parts encouragement to one part reproof is a wise ratio. If a child (or a friend) only hears criticism, he will stop listening altogether.

Think of our Lord reproving the disciples for their unbelief (Matthew 8:26). Think of Him challenging Peter for his opposition to the cross (Matthew 16:22). Reproof isn’t the absence of love. It is often the proof of it.

Easier to stay silent? Yes. Required by genuine love? Yes.

“Unfortunately, we’ve rewarded a sort of cowardice by calling it ‘kindness’, and this has made us utterly spineless when truth finally hits” (Criss Jami).

“Iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another”(27:17).

“All Scripture is inspired by God, and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness so that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work”(2 Timothy 3:16-17, italics mine).

Train Up A Child

June 27–Proverbs 21-24

“Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old, he will not depart from it”(22:6).

“Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; the rod of discipline will remove it far from him”(22:15).

Scripture speaks about child rearing. Clearly. Often. “Raising a child in the way he should go, “is the great duty of every parent.” “When he is old, he will not depart from it,” is probability rather than promise, says Chuck Swindoll. Even so, it is a great statement of a parent’s power. When taught with wisdom and grace and love and humility before the Lord, early religious/moral training has a positive and permanent impact.

Proverbs 22:15 and 23:13-14 are pointed reminders of the “rod of discipline”. While popular opinion has (at some level) turned away from any use of “spanking” as a valid part of a comprehensive plan of discipline, the Bible disagrees. Christians who trust the scripture for wisdom in things of heaven are wise to also do so in things of home.

“Research supports the fact that, when used correctly and infrequently, and as one of many discipline forms, spanking has been a common factor in kids with well-developed self-motivation, empathy, morality and character”(James Dobson).

As you raise your children, do you listen to the culture for wisdom? (Look around you, please. How is the culture’s wisdom working?) Or, as HIS child, will you trust YOUR child to the wisdom and discipline of God?

“Children are the next generation under construction” (Craig D. Lounsbrough).

“These words shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your sons”(Deuteronomy 6:6-7).

“God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom his father does not discipline?”(Hebrews 12:7).

Anger Management

June 26–Proverbs 17-20

Proverbs often speaks about anger. Over, and over, the Spirit warns us of anger’s potential for harm. There are times (some) when anger is appropriate, necessary and right. There are also times (many) when it is undisciplined and destructive. “Be angry, but sin not,” says Ephesians 4:26, with considered caution.

Today’s text speaks wisdom on this subject. Friend, have you learned anger management?

“The beginning of strife is like letting out water, so abandon the quarrel before it breaks out”(17:14). Use the off ramp! Recognize the dangers of escalation! Walk away before you create a destructive situation!

“A man’s discretion makes him slow to anger, it is his glory to overlook a transgression”(19:11). Don’t react! Anger (acting on it, staying in it) is a choice. Emotions can be (and should be) brought under the control of your mind and higher conscience. Be “quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger,” says James 1:19.

“A man of great anger will bear the penalty, for if you rescue him, you will only have to do it again”(19:19). Self examination is wise. Is this a pattern for me? Am I angry often? Am I a man of great (large or frequent) anger? Honest, now! Submit yourself to God and His counsel.

“Keeping away from strife is an honor for a man, for any fool will quarrel”(20:3). Even when you are right, the higher road may be to yield. How strange the pride that makes a man feel it is his right to feel/express anger. “Let your yieldedness be known to all men,” is one possible/helpful translation of Philippians 4:5.

An angry person is neither wise, nor worthy of leadership. God regularly warns us. Dear friend, whether in words, on Facebook, in politics, in the hidden thoughts of your heart, are you managing your anger, or it is managing you?

“How much more grievous are the consequences of anger than the causes of it”(Marcus Aurelius).

“Do not associate with a man given to anger. . .or you will learn his ways and find a snare for yourself” (Proverbs 22:24-25).

The Way

June 25–Proverbs 14-16

“The house of the wicked will be destroyed, but the tent of the upright will flourish. There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death”(14:11-12).

In John 14, our Lord called Himself “the Way”. By the use of this word, our Savior teaches (and the Proverbs affirm) three important lessons.

Our lives are not static. We are on our way to somewhere. Always. Like a river, our lives move forward. I must never fear new seasons of life, or new assignments from the Lord. “Now the Lord said to Abram, ‘Go forth from your country, and from your relatives. . .to a land that I will show you” (Genesis 12:1). I must never stop growing or getting forward. Jesus is not a place to stop and stay, He is the WAY.

Our lives require COURAGEOUS CHOICE. High stakes involved. A morally beautiful God did not create a morally ambivalent world! Creation is partisan toward righteousness. The Creator requires it. The wicked will be destroyed. The upright will flourish. The Bible never apologizes for the solid steel of this moral vision. We are to CHOOSE.

True wisdom is CHRIST. While the Proverbs do not name the coming Savior, by warning us against self-reliance they prepare us for Him. “Lean NOT on your own understanding” (Proverbs 3). There will be choices (many) that make good, logical sense to me (just as they did to Eve). I must never trust my own wisdom or feelings! “There is none righteous, not one.” Apart from the Shepherd’s voice I will surely fail.

Christ is not a means to an end. He is the end and the means. Is your heart convinced, dear one? Have you committed to walk in union with Christ? Is He your way?

“Thomas said to Him, ‘Lord, we do not know where you are going, how do we know the way?’ Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me’ “(John 14:5-6).

“Did not our hearts burn within us, while He talked with us by the way?” (Luke 24:31. KJV).

The Way

June 25–Proverbs 14-16

“The house of the wicked will be destroyed, but the tent of the upright will flourish. There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death”(14:11-12).

In John 14, our Lord called Himself “the Way”. By the use of this word, our Savior teaches (and the Proverbs affirm) three important lessons.

Our lives are not static. We are on our way to somewhere. Always. Like a river, our lives move forward. I must never fear new seasons of life, or new assignments from the Lord. “Now the Lord said to Abram, ‘Go forth from your country, and from your relatives. . .to a land that I will show you” (Genesis 12:1). I must never stop growing or getting forward. Jesus is not a place to stop and stay, He is the WAY.

Our lives require COURAGEOUS CHOICE. High stakes involved. A morally beautiful God did not create a morally ambivalent world! Creation is partisan toward righteousness. The Creator requires it. The wicked will be destroyed. The upright will flourish. The Bible never apologizes for the solid steel of this moral vision. We are to CHOOSE.

True wisdom is CHRIST. While the Proverbs do not name the coming Savior, by warning us against self-reliance they prepare us for Him. “Lean NOT on your own understanding” (Proverbs 3). There will be choices (many) that make good, logical sense to me (just as they did to Eve). I must never trust my own wisdom or feelings! “There is none righteous, not one.” Apart from the Shepherd’s voice I will surely fail.

Christ is not a means to an end. He is the end and the means. Is your heart convinced, dear one? Have you committed to walk in union with Christ? Is He your way?

“Thomas said to Him, ‘Lord, we do not know where you are going, how do we know the way?’ Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me’ “(John 14:5-6).

“Did not our hearts burn within us, while He talked with us by the way?” (Luke 24:31. KJV).

Righteousness

June 24–Proverbs 11-13

“Riches do not profit in the day of wrath, but righteousness delivers from death. The righteousness of the blameless will smooth his way, but the wicked will fall by his own wickedness”(11:4-5).

Solomon was a wise man. Supernaturally so. One of the things he knew for certain is that righteousness is an active and positive agent! It powerfully impacts life. It leads to life and blessing. Wickedness, in the same way, leads to death and disfavor. Friend, do you believe this truth?

Scripture holds fast to the certainty and priority of righteousness. The teaching of grace (salvation is a free gift by grace through faith) must never weaken our conviction that it is possible and profitable to walk in righteousness. Noah. Job. Joseph. The Scripture describes them as blameless and blessed. God’s requirement of righteousness never goes away.

The universe is essentially moral! Heaven is (and earth will be) holy! God’s commandments do not describe the universe as He wishes it to be. They describe the universe as it is–at its very core!

Righteousness, therefore, is the essential ingredient in true success. It is the only thing that works or ever will! The coming judgement (all men resurrected to either reward or punishment) will only certify this nonnegotiable truth.

Early in my Christian life, I learned Psalm 1. People who delight in God’s law are BLESSED. People who resist His law are unstable and vulnerable. Righteousness is the only path that leads to life, the only truly wise investment.

Friend, do you believe that God is righteous and that He rewards righteousness? Do you deny self and sin in pursuit of God?

“Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness” (Matthew 6:33).

“I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them but rubbish so that I may gain Christ, and may be found in Him, not having a righteousness of my own derived from the Law, but that which is through faith in Christ, the righteousness which comes from God on the basis of faith” (Philippians 3:8-9).