November 3–John 16-17
“I do not ask on behalf of these alone, but for those also who believe in Me through their word; that they may all be one; even as You, Father, are in Me and I in You, that they also may be in Us, so that the world may believe that You sent Me”(17:20-21).
In 1985, Holly and I stood together in a church in Coral Gables, FL. In that holy moment, we made vows. We became husband and wife. “The two shall become one,” says God’s word. Legally, physically, financially, Spiritually, our lives were joined together by the Creator.
Oneness in marriage is tricky business. Self and pride and fear pull constantly against the higher pursuit. As in every marriage, sin (in me, and in Holly) is still part of the struggle.
In the deep plan of the Creator, however, marriage is a symbol of something even better. The highest goal of human life is union with God. He the lover, we the beloved. Shared life and identity and purpose! As in marriage, we are to be ONE with Him.
On the night before His crucifixion, Jesus spoke of this grand narrative! Our Savior prayed for us to be one, and for us to be perfected in unity. see v. 23). Please note, oneness with the Father and the Son is a process rather than a single step.
Would you walk with the Father? You must seek Him daily. Abide in Him. Find time to talk, and to listen. Moments of surrender and apology. As in marriage, it is an intimacy that grows over time.
Want to get married, dear one? Jesus prayed for you not to miss this grand privilege! Will you seek and worship Him? Will you gladly surrender your will, and your fears, and walk in union with Him?
“Wives be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church. . . Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her. . . This mystery is great; but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church” (Ephesians 5:22-23, 25,32).
“It will no longer be said of you, ‘Forsaken,’ . . .for you will be called. . .’Beulah’ (Hebrew, “married”, Isaiah 62:4).