June 22–Proverbs 2-6
“My son, observe the commandment of your father and do not forsake the teaching of your mother; bind them continually on your heart; tie them to your neck. When you walk about, they will guide you”(6:20-22).
The Bible teaches parental responsibility for the upbringing of children. Religious and moral instruction is a task given to every parent by God. Foolish are those who leave it for a later time when the child can “choose for himself”. “It is not my responsibility to get you into Harvard,” says a recent Facebook meme. “It IS my responsibility to get you into Heaven.”
Patiently, forcefully, using both instruction and discipline (see Ephesians 6:4 with its emphasis on the father’s role in this process) both parents are to impress wisdom on the developing mind and heart. “I have chosen Abraham, so that he may command (italics mine) his children and his household after him to keep the way of the Lord by doing righteousness and justice,” says the Lord in Genesis 18:19.
The stakes are high! Righteousness is profitable. Sin is equally destructive! We do our children GREAT GOOD by teaching them the character and nature of a holy God. In the same way, children are commanded to accept and retain the lessons of godly parents. As with our relationship to God, only those who “have ears” will learn and profit.
Love and respect for parents prepares us to love Christ well. Sitting at the feet of Jesus (attentive, open, hungry for instruction, see Luke 10), comes easier to a child who has practiced the posture and attitude of humility with godly parents. Of course, a parent must be worthy of respect. No parent can instruct his child in holy living if he, himself, is a stranger to it.
Friend, as you pray today for your children and grandchildren, will you hear the Lord’s call to the task of instruction and moral training? Will you stand strong against the enemy’s accusation of your inadequacy? The Great One calls you! Trust Him and obey!
“You cannot control your children, you say? Then the Lord have mercy on you! It is your business to do it, and you must do it, or else you will soon find they will control you. No one knows what judgment will come from God upon those who allow sin in children to go unrebuked” (Charles Spurgeon).
“I am mindful of the sincere faith within you, which first dwelt in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice. . .that from childhood you have known the sacred writings which are able to give you wisdom that leads to salvation through faith in Jesus Christ”(2 Timothy 1:5, 3:15).