March 5–Joshua 20-22
“Then the sons of Israel sent to the sons of Reuben (and Gad and the half-tribe of Manasseh). . .’What is this unfaithful act which you have committed against the God of Israel?’ “(22:13-14, 16).
Saying goodbye is hard. After seven years of warfare, forty thousand fighting men of Reuben and Gad and Manasseh left the camp of Israel. Fulfilling an agreement made years before, these brothers-in-arms were dismissed to their homes on the eastern side of the Jordan. Israel was still “one nation under God”, but now separated by significant distance and the psychological barrier of the river Jordan.
Distance is difficult. One of the reasons we are instructed not to, “miss the assembling of ourselves together,” is that unity flourishes in regular contact and communication. To STAY together we need to BE together.
No surprise, then, a disturbing rumor soon circulated through the camp. An altar had been raised by the departing tribes! In the absence of any other explanation, this news was perceived in the worst possible way. (Aren’t rumors usually?) Was this altar an act of idolatry? Were the departing tribes setting up their OWN place of worship in disobedience to God’s instruction? Were they forming a new church?
Following the sad tendency of the human heart, some immediately counseled war! Wisely, Joshua did not over-react. He sent a delegation to express concern and hear explanation. The altar was NOT an act of independence at all. Rather, a witness and reminder of their shared identity! The leaders of Reuben and Gad and Manasseh were measured and wise in their words. See 22:21-29. Thank God for Phineas and his ten-chief committee. Thank God for Joshua and his leadership.
In marriage and family, in congregational life and politics, if unity is the goal, communication is the necessary skill. Honest conversation can be difficult, but when done with a heart of humility, it can preserve unity and prevent great damage. Do you have brothers/sisters with whom you need to talk? When unity is threatened, and before you react, shouldn’t you hear their story and heart?
“Therefore I, the prisoner of the Lord, implore you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you were called. . .being diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace”(Ephesians 4:1,3).
“If your brother sins, go and show him his fault in private; if he listens to you, you have won your brother”(Matthew 18:15).